Chapter 215 Persuading Students
Chapter 215 Persuading Students
"Yu Yong, tell me specifically, what did you say to Qi Xing that made him so angry and hit you?" Yuan Yu asked Yu Yong.
"I...I said he..." Yu Yong stuttered.
"Tell the truth. If you are wrong, you are wrong. If you are right, you are right. Don't be deceitful. A real man should be bold and daring." Yuan Yu taught them.
After hearing Yuan Yu's teachings, Yu Yong finally mustered up the courage and said, "I said... I said Qi Xing... has no mother... and said that his stepmother is hypocritical. She will definitely ignore Qi Xing after having her own son, just like Zhang Zifang's stepmother."
"Then this is your fault. You insulted someone's mother. To be honest, you shouldn't do that. You should be careful with your words and actions in the future and don't say rude things. Apologize to Qi Xing!" Yuan Yu said.
"But Master...he also hit me, and I should apologize?" Yu Yong said unconvinced.
Yuan Yu insisted: "You should apologize for scolding him first. We can talk about him hitting you later!"
"Okay..." Yu Yong looked at Qi Xing, then said reluctantly: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have scolded you."
Qi Xing snorted coldly.
"Okay, Qi Xing, it's wrong for you to hit people. You should also apologize to Yu Yong!" Yuan Yu continued.
"No, he didn't scold me. How could I hit him?" Qi Xing said unhappily.
"Apologize! Yu Yong has already apologized for scolding you, and you should also apologize for hitting him." Yuan Yu said.
Qi Xing said unhappily: "If an apology is useful, then I can kill someone and then apologize, so I don't have to pay with my life, right?"
"We'll talk about this later. The most important thing for you now is to apologize and admit your mistake. You acted on impulse and it was wrong of yours. Do you admit that?" Yuan Yu said.
"Okay, okay, it's my fault. I apologize. I'm sorry!" Qi Xing didn't want to talk about it anymore and wanted to resolve the matter quickly. Apologies were useless anyway and his relationship with Yu Yong wouldn't get better because of an apology.
Yu Yong also snorted coldly, totally refusing to accept his insincere apology.
"Master, since we have apologized to each other, can we go now?" Qi Xing urged.
"Wait a minute, I have something to say." Yuan Yu then said, "You two were both wrong for fighting today. Yu Yong, you shouldn't have insulted Qi Xing's background and mother for no reason, and Qi Xing shouldn't have hit someone just because of a momentary anger. What do you think you would do if you encounter something like today again in the future?"
"What else can I do? Others are scolding me, should I just endure it? He will be obedient after being beaten a few times!" Qi Xing waved his fist and glared at Yu Yong.
Yu Yong felt pain on his face. He didn't know why Qi Xing had become so powerful that he could even beat him.
"No! If you do something irreversible because of a momentary sense of loyalty, you will regret it." Yuan Yu said.
"Then what should I do? I shouldn't hit people or I should curse back?" Qi Xing said.
"That's not right. You should use your wisdom to resolve it. If you don't care and your heart is strong enough, these words will not hurt you. The reason why you were angered by Yu Yong's words today may be because of these words. This is exactly the weak spot in your heart. You should discover it in time and then make up for it." Yuan Yu slowly guided Qi Xing.
Qi Xing frowned, thinking that what Master Yuan said was both right and wrong, so he asked, "Isn't it just asking me to endure it?"
"I'm not telling you to bear it, I'm telling you not to take it seriously. If there are countless people in the world who want to hurt you, what should you do? You can't beat them all one by one, right? If someone throws dirty water on you, you should clear your name. If someone slanders you with words, you don't have to care. If you really can't bear it, you can fight back appropriately, but you also have to consider the consequences of doing so. Can you bear it? Do you understand?"
"Okay, okay!" Qi Xing felt that there was some truth in what he said, but he always felt that Yuan Yu was just telling him a story.
"Go back and keep yourself warm!" Yuan Yu told Qi Xing to leave.
Qi Xing nodded, then looked at Yu Yong and walked past him.
Yu Yong watched him leave, and said unhappily, "Master, can I leave too?"
"Let me say a few more words to you." Yuan Yu said.
Yu Yong looked miserable.
Yuan Yu looked at Yu Yong and asked, "Qi Xing hit you, which was a bit excessive, but you caused this matter without any reason. The source lies with you. Do you regret it?"
"Yes!" Yu Yong answered without hesitation, because he knew that the teacher would definitely ask him to correct himself, but if he could really correct himself, why would he be scolded by the teachers again and again?
"Yu Yong, I found that you have caused trouble more than once or twice. Can you tell me why?" Yuan Yu asked.
"Why? I just can't stand them!" Yu Yong said.
"Do you hate everyone you provoke? Or sometimes, you don't hate them, but just because of some other things? Think about it carefully, why do you provoke others every time, and what do you need most? Instead of being aggressive towards others blindly."
Yuan Yu asked several questions in a row.
Yu Yong was indeed reminiscing.
Today, he saw Qi Xing's stepmother coming to send him to school. They were talking and laughing and had a good relationship. He was really dissatisfied in his heart, so he wanted to provoke her.
why?
Because he felt it was glaring. Why did Qi Xing, a motherless man, get a mother who cared about him, but what about himself? His mother never cared about him, but only loved his younger brother at home. She gave all the good things to his younger brother and cared about every aspect of his life, while he was always ignored, just because his younger brother was sick when he was born.
Yu Yong felt unhappy. Why should his sickly brother take away all the attention from his mother and father? He was also their child, after all?
Qi Xing, the illegitimate son, was valued by his father and now had the care of his stepmother, but Yu Yong had nothing. Yu Yong was angry and scolded Qi Xing.
Many times, he was like this. When he saw someone's mother or father caring for him, he would get angry.
"Yu Yong, have you thought clearly about the reasons behind this?" Yuan Yu saw that Yu Yong seemed to have the answer.
Yu Yong nodded silently.
Yuan Yu continued to teach him, "You don't have to tell me the reason, but you should think carefully about how to avoid doing this in the future, or express it in a different way, and seek what you really need."
"Thank you, Master. I understand." Yu Yong felt that the Master's words had indeed enlightened him. Although he knew that it was wrong for him to get angry and attack every time, he could not change it. Now that he had found the reason, he should face up to his own thoughts.
It is wrong to be jealous of others just because their parents love them.
Perhaps, he should talk to his parents more often!
"Since you understand, you can go back and study hard." Yuan Yu patted Yu Yong on the shoulder and encouraged him.
Yu Yong nodded: "Thank you, Master Yuan."
After saying that, Yu Yong also left.
After Yuan Yu had persuaded the students, he picked up his book and began to prepare for the content of the class.
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